Considering the Options for Elderly Care

| Tuesday, May 22, 2012
By Jack Restinson


As our parents age, it become our responsibility to make sure they are cared for. Some people also take care of elderly aunts, uncles and friends. Making the transition for Independence life to begin cared for is also difficult for the elder in question. Don't get stuck thinking a nursing home is the only option. Check out assisted living centers in your area and live-in care options before making your final decision.

Most older people take lots of pills each day. Some people take prescriptions while others take supplements. Whatever it is, if you're loved one isn't able to keep their pills straight it's time to seek outside support. If your loved one can no longer cook their own meals, get dressed on their own and keep up their personal hygiene, it's time to look at the other options.

One thing to remember is that while nursing homes are thought of as bad, there are plenty of really good ones, too. Nowadays, the federal government regulates and licenses nursing homes all over the country to maintain standards of care. Sadly, most families cannot afford to put their loved on in a nursing home without going into debt. The cost is one of the reasons people steer away from nursing homes.

When considering options, think about what your loved on needs help with and what they can do for themselves. For instance, an assisted living facility provides community and medical support but with much more freedom and independence than a home. There are also lots of kinds of assisted living facilities so you can choose what level of support, care and freedom is right for your loved one.

Having a live-in medical care professional move in to your loved one's house is often an ideal option. The benefits are many. Your loved one will be allowed to stay in their own home and avoid the suffering and stress of moving.

Live-in care options also let you customize and personalize the care your loved one needs. For instance, you can create the aide's schedule around your own. Having the same assistant day after day will also help the continuity and effectiveness of the care provided. Oftentimes, the live-in aide becomes a good friend of both the patient as well as the patient's circle of family and friends.

Some families find that the best option for an aging loved on is to have them move into the house of a friend or family member. This involves a transition in living spaces but at least the end point is comfortable, familiar and filled with loving people. Of course, this can also cause a huge amount of stress on the host family. It's important, in these cases, to make sure the family that opens their home still gets plenty of support caring for the invalid.

Never forget that there are lots and lots of options for choosing care for your elderly loved one. The feeling of entrapment you might have on receiving the news that they can no longer live safely on their own is natural but don't let it get out of control. Reach out to your support networks to sustain yourself through this rough time. Take into account the traditional nursing home option as well as other solutions like hiring a live-in care aide or having your loved one move in with a family member.




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